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Passover Seder Table Gift Guide

Order six weeks out, not two

Much of what is on this page is made to order rather than pulled off a shelf. Production runs roughly three to four weeks, longer for a commission, and engraving adds time on top of that. Work backwards from the first seder and give yourself six weeks: the production window, shipping, and the week in which nothing goes to plan.

Shipping is free worldwide, so the arithmetic is only about time, not cost. Engraving is $50 and is worth considering on a becher or a decanter, where a name and a year turn an object into a record of who gave it and when. If you are reading this closer to the holiday than six weeks, buy the piece anyway and give it with a note. A seder happens every year, and a matzo cover that arrives late is still a matzo cover for the rest of your life.

Anything that does not exist in the catalogue as listed — a different Hebrew inscription, a set built for a particular table — is a conversation rather than a checkout, and it needs longer than six weeks. Start it early.

The four cups: why wine is the organising idea

At every other Jewish meal, wine appears once, for kiddush, and then the meal takes over. At the seder, wine is structural. The evening is divided by four cups: one at kiddush, one at the end of maggid, one after the grace after meals, one at hallel. A fifth is poured for Elijah and left standing. Practice on how much to drink, and whether to lean while doing it, differs between Ashkenazi and Sephardi communities and between families. Follow your own rabbi where it matters.

What this means for the table is simple. You need a cup that is unmistakably the kiddush cup, and something to refill from that is worth looking at, because it will be handled a dozen times over four hours. A becher and a decanter are the two most useful objects you can put on a seder table.

The bechers here are sold as a cup with its own saucer, which matters at a seder more than at Shabbat: four fillings over one evening means four opportunities to mark the tablecloth. The plain silver becher and saucer is $950 and is the piece to buy if you want one object that will work at every meal of the year. For pouring, the decanter and 4 shot glasses set at $1,950 gives you the decanter and a matched set of glasses in one purchase. Where the table is larger, the Set of dish and 6 shot glasses made of silver is $1,550. More on choosing between them in the decanter and shot glass set guide, and on cups generally in the becher buying guide.

The matzo cover, and why it earns its own section

A matzo cover is a cloth that sits over the matzot on the seder table. The convention is three compartments holding three matzot, used in sequence through the evening: the middle one is broken during yachatz, the larger half put aside as the afikoman, the rest eaten at motzi matzah. The cover keeps them separated and keeps them covered until they are wanted. Since the matzot sit at the centre of the table from the first cup to the last, it is also the most-looked-at textile in the room.

The covers here fall into two groups. The plain-woven pieces, such as the $600 Cover for Matzo "Letters of the Hebrew alphabet", are made to be used: they go on the table, they get folded back, they are the working object. The art pieces are a different proposition. Cover for Matzo with art "Jerusalem" is $1,300, and the larger art covers, including Cover for Matzo with art "The Journey of Moses", are $2,300. These are hand-finished by the atelier's craftsmen and bought the way a painting is bought, for the image as much as the function.

The full range sits in the matzo cover collection, and the matzo cover buying guide goes through sizing and construction in more detail.

Everything else on the table

Four hours is a long meal, and the things that make it comfortable are usually the last thing anyone buys. Napkin rings are the clearest example: at a seder there is a napkin at every place, and a Set of 6 napkin rings at $250 does more visible work per dollar than almost anything else here. Twelve-ring sets exist for longer tables; the napkin rings and holders guide covers sizing.

The Wine coaster made of stainless steel at $350 solves the specific problem of a seder: a bottle in circulation for hours, on a cloth that is being used for a meal. If you would rather buy the table as a whole, the Table set "Moses" is $1,300 and gives a coordinated look without assembling it piece by piece; the table set buying guide covers when a set beats separates. For the middle of the table, start with the centrepiece guide.

What to bring if you are a guest

Being invited to a seder is not the same as being invited to dinner. Your host has been cooking and cleaning for a week and has bought their own wine. Bring something for the table itself, and bring it a few days early rather than on the night, when there is nowhere to put it.

One rule holds at every level: give something that stays out. A bottle is finished by hallel. A matzo cover is on the table again next year, and the host will remember whose it was.

A price ladder by relationship

The question behind most of these purchases is not what the object costs but what the relationship warrants.

For the top of that ladder, the hosting gifts above $1,500 guide gathers the pieces that clear $1,500, and the exclusive collection holds the rarest work.

What we do not make

Worth saying plainly, because seder shopping lists run long. There is no seder plate in this catalogue, no cup sold as Elijah's cup, no afikoman bag and no Haggadah. Those are parts of the evening and you will need them, but you will need to source them elsewhere. What is here is the wine, the matzo and the table: bechers, decanters and glasses, matzo covers, napkin rings, coasters and table sets.